Anei me pehea te whakarereke i tenei aronui rereke
Na pea pea ka uiui koe ki a raatau he aha te mea i pa ki a ratau me te whakautu me "NMU." Engari he aha te tikanga o tera?
Ko te NMU e tu ana:
He nui rawa, Koe?
ranei
Kahore he nui, koe?
Koinei te whakautu me te patapatai i tetahi. Ko etahi o nga tangata kaore pea e whakauru i tetahi tohu tohu i te mutunga o taua mea.
Pehea te Whakamahia te NMU
Ka whakamahia te NMU hei whakautu i te wa e ui ana ki a raatau kei te mahi i tenei wa, i te mea ranei kua paahitia ake nei ki a raatau-i te nuinga o nga whakawhitinga korero i waenganui i nga tangata tokorua (penei i te karere kuputuhi me te korerorero tuihono).
He maha nga iwi e whiriwhiri ana ki te tīmata i te korerorero ma te uiui i te aha o te tangata kei te mahi ki a raatau ranei i te wa e mahi ana i roto i te tumanako ki te whakawhiti i te poari korero. Mena kaore te tangata e uiui ana i te mahi i tetahi mea nui ki te korero mo taua mea, ka whakamahi pea ratau i te NMU kia hohoro te tiki i te karere puta noa i te mea kaore he kaupapa, he tikanga ora ranei e whakahua ana.
Ko te U i te mutunga o te kararangi ka tuhi i te patai taketake i runga i te tangata nana i ui. I muri i nga mea katoa, mehemea kaore he mea nui i roto i te oranga o te tangata, tera pea he mea pai te kaupapa o te ao ki te korero. He tika ano hoki te whakaatu i te hiahia ki tetahi atu tangata i muri i to raatau tohu ki a koe.
He tauira o te whakamahi i te NMU
Hei tauira 1
Hoa # 1: Hey he aha ake
Hoa # 2: Nmu
Hoa # 1: Nm, rn
I roto i te tauira tuatahi o runga, tirohia te ahua o te Hoa # 1 e pai ana te rereke o te NMU-NM (mehemea kaore te U) ki te korero kaore he mea e haere ana i tenei wa.
Hei tauira 2
Hoa # 1: He aha ta koe e mahi rn
Hoa # 2: Nmu?
Hoa # 1: Haere ki nga kiriata, me haere mai?
Hoa # 2: Ae!
I te piti o nga tauira o runga ake, ko te Hoa # 2 e urupare ana me ta ratou e whakamahere nei, e tino arahi ana i te korero i tetahi wahi.
Ko te Downside o te whakamahi i te NMU
Ko te whakautu ki tetahi me te NMU ka taea e koe te ahua kaore koe e pai ki te korerorero, te tautuhi i te reo mo te korero i te timatanga. Ko te mooni ko te mahi tonu koe i nga wa katoa, ahakoa kei te noho noa, kei te tirotiro ranei i a Facebook .
He pai ki te ui atu ki a raatau te mea kei te whai ake ratou ki muri i to raatau tono ki a koe, engari he pai ake te korero i te tuatahi. Ko te U i roto i te NMU e uiui ana i te patai ki te uiui, engari ka waiho ano e ia i roto i te ahua o te waahi raruraru ki te timata ki te korero ki a koe mo to ratau oranga i muri i nga korero e kore ai koe e whakaatu ki a koe, me te mea kei a ratou anake te ahua kotahi e hiahia ana ki te whai korero tika.
Kia mau tonu ki runga ake nei ki te whakaaro koe ki te whakauru i te NMU ki taau kuputuhi kupu / kupu ipurangi. Mena he tino hiahia koe ki te whai korerorero, ngana ki te karo i te whakamahi. Ko te tangata e mahihia ana e koe te korerorero / korerorero ka tino painga ki te whakautu pono ake i te whakautu urupare me te NMU anake e mahi ana kia aro atu koe ki a koe.