Te ti'aturi i te reira, kaore ranei, ko te 'mhm' ehara i te horopaki
Ko te uiui i tetahi patai e hiahia ana i te whakautu tere, kaore ranei he whakautu tika, engari ki te mea kua tamata koe ki te tono i tetahi ipurangi (ma te kuputuhi ranei), pea kua tae mai ki a koe te whakautu MHM (ranei mhm ). He aha te tikanga o tera?
Tenei ko te kapi i runga i te mhm :
He reo pai te Mhm e pa ana te nuinga o nga tangata reo Ingarihi ki te "ae."
He roa te "mmmm" e whai ake ana i tetahi atu "hmmm" roa (rite ki te humming).
I te tuatahi o te titiro, ka whakaaro pea koe me tuhi te mhm mo etahi mea i homai i te rongonui o nga raupapa ipurangi . Engari ko te mhm ehara i te horopaki.
Pehea e whakamahia ana te Mhm
Ka whakamahia te Mhm i runga i te ipurangi, ma te karere kuputuhi ano hoki kei roto i te ora tonu. I te nuinga o te korero, ko te tikanga o te mhm "ae," engari kaore i te mea he maamaa, he whakaihiihi ano hoki he tangi tika.
Tenei te pehea e mahi ana: Ko te tangata kotahi he uiui ki tetahi atu tangata e kii ana i te whakautu aee kore ranei. Mena kei te whakaaro te tangata kei a ratau i runga io ratou mahunga, ka hiahia pea ratou ki te tuhi i te mhm hei whakakapi.
Ka whakamahia i roto i te ora tonu, ka rere ke te tikanga o te mhm i runga i te korero a te tangata. He nui te mahi a te pouaka ki te korero a te tangata aee me te ngakau nui, me te kore hoki e ahuareka.
Engari, kaore e taea e te tangata te whakaatu i to raatau reo reo i runga i te ipurangi, i te tuhinga ranei ka taea e ratou ma te whakamahi i to ratou ake reo i roto i te tangata, na ka whakamahia e koe etahi atu mea hei whakamaori i tetahi whakautu kei roto mhm . Ko te horopaki o te whakawhitinga korero me te hononga i waenga i te kaipupuri me te kaituku korero ka awhina i a koe kia pai ake te whakaaro mo te tikanga o te tangata ki te whakautu me te mhm .
He tauira o te whakamahi i te Mhm
Hei tauira 1
Hoa # 1: " I whiwhi koe i te kōnae i tonoa atu e ahau i tenei ata? "
Hoa # 2: " mhm "
I te tauira tuatahi i runga ake, ko te Hoa # 2 anake e whakautu i te ae, i te kore ranei. Ka whiriwhiri ratou ki te whakamahi i te mhm , ehara i te mea he maama me te ae , engari ka tohu pea ko te raruraru, he whanaungatanga pai kei waenga i te tokorua.
Hei tauira 2
Te hoa # 1: "I hopukia e koe te kēmu o te po whakamutunga?"
Te hoa # 2: "Mhm, ka takaro i te wahanga tuarua!"
I te piti o nga tauira o runga ake nei, ka kite koe i te horopaki o te horopaki i te whakautu a te Hoa # 2. Ko ta ratou korero i muri i te korero a te mhm, e whakaatu ana i ta ratou korero maia .
Hei tauira 3
Hoa # 1: "E mohio ana koe kei te pai koe ki te tuku i to maatau hui tae noa ki te wiki e tu mai ana?"
Friend # 2: "mhm ... me tika ki te whakatika i taku maramataka."
I tenei tauira whakamutunga, ka taea e koe te kite i te ahuatanga o te horopaki o te whakamahinga o te mea i whakamaramatia i te tauira 2. E marama ana kei te huri nga hoa e rua i a raatau mahere, a ahakoa ko te hoa # 2 e whakaae ana ki te whakarereketanga, ki te whakamahi i tetahi ellipsis me te korero apataki e whakaatu ana kia kaua e koa ki a ia.
Ahea te whakamahi i te Mhm vs
He rite tonu te Mhm ki te ae, engari he maha tonu te waa me te waahi hei whakamahi. Anei etahi o nga aratohu whānui hei whakaaro ki te hiahia koe ki te whakauru ki o raatau ipurangi / kuputuhi.
Whakamahia te mhm ina:
Kei a koe he whakawhitinga korero nui. Te tuhi i tetahi hoa ? Te whakautu i tetahi uiraa i runga i Facebook ? Ka pai pea koe ki te whakamahi i te mhm .
Kei a koe etahi atu korero hei muri i to whakautu. Ka rite ki te korero i runga ake, he nui te awe o te mhm ki te horopaki, na, ki te hiahia koe ki te waiho i tetahi korero e pa ana ki te mea e kii ana koe ki a, ka whakaatahia mai e to whakautu.
Kei te whakaaro koe "aee" ko to whakautu, engari kaore koe e whakapehapeha, kaore ranei e whakahē ki a koe. Na e mohio ana koe me tika koe ki te mea ae, engari kaore rawa o ou whakaaro i reira. Ka taea e te mhm mii te whakaatu mai mehemea e hiahia ana koe ki te kaipupuri i runga i to whakaaro me te whakaponotanga.
Whakamahiaa inae ka:
Kei a koe he korero tika, he ngaiotanga ranei. Mena kei te tukuna atu e koe he kaiwhakaora ki a koe mo to kura tuarua , korero mo te raruraru nui, me whai atu ranei i tetahi atu korero e kore e hiahia ki te takaro, ko to painga pai ko te piri ki te korero noa.
E hiahia ana koe kia marama ko ra mo to whakautu. Kaore te katoa e mohio ana he aha te tikanga o te mhm , kaore ano hoki e taea te whakamaori i te mea he pono pono na runga i te pehea e whakamahia ana. Piri ki te korero aee kaore koe e hiahia ki te whakapae mo to whakautu.
Kare koe e ruarua ki te korero ae. Ki te korero koe i te ipurangi, i te kuputuhi ranei, ka mau tonu nga korero a te iwi ki a koe. Korea ina ka hiahia koe ki te whakamohio kaore koe e whakaaro ana, kaore hoki e taea.