Ehara i te mea koinei te mea e kitea ana e koe i tetahi ipurangi
I tetahi karere noa ranei, i tuhihia ranei koe ko te Rronke RUH? Mena na, koinei te mea me mohio koe mo taua mea ka taea e koe te whakautu i te huarahi tino tika.
Mena kei te mohio koe ki nga mahi hou o tenei ra, ka taea e koe te korero i te wa tonu ka kii mai te tangata nana koe i tuku i tenei waahanga kaore koe i te tono mehemea kei te whakakotahi koe i nga haona.
Ko te Hua o RUH
Ko te kupu H i roto i te horopaki RUH ko te waahi pokanoa mo te kupu whakaoho. Ki te whakakapi i te kupu H-kupu ki a koe, ka mutu koe ki te patai, "Kua whakaohohia koe?"
Na, ka tuku tetahi tangata ki te RUH i roto i te karere me te kuputuhi ipurangi , he aha ta ratou e hiahia ana kia mohio mehemea kei te whakaoho te kaiwhiwhi (he mea pea mo te tangata e tono ana). He mea tino rite tera.
Me pehea te whakamahi RUH
No te mea ko te RUH he koronui whakaongaonga whakaongaonga e whai ana i te waahi pokanoa, he maha tonu te waahi e tiakina ana mo te hunga e titiro ana ki te hono atu i roto i nga huarahi taiao. Mo nga take whaitake, ka taea e te iwi te mahi i tenei waahanga i runga i te kore e tuwhera ana ki nga paatai pakihi mo o raatau hoa me nga akonga kia kite.
Ka taea e nga hoa i roto i te whanaungatanga tuuturu te whakamahi i a ratau i te korero karere tetahi ki tetahi atu (kaore i mohiotia ko "sexting"), kaore ranei he tangata ke ki te korero ki tetahi atu tangata na roto i te karere ngaro i runga i te pae taatai . Waihoki, ko te nuinga o te waa e whakahaerehia ana. Kaore pea koe e kite i tetahi e tuku ana i te RUH hei whakahou Twitter me Facebook hei tumanako ki te tiki rau, ara mano ranei o nga whakautu mai i te iwi maha.
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Ko te urupare o te tangata ki tenei waahanga kaore he whakaaetanga, he whakaponokore, he whakaharahara, he kino kore ranei. Ka hāngai katoa ki te whanaungatanga i waenganui i ia tangata, o o raatau whaiaro, me te taumata o te whakamarie e mahara ana ki a raatau i te whakamahi i taua reo i te ipurangi, i nga karere kuputuhi ranei.
Ko te tangata e titiro ana ki te hono atu ki tetahi atu i roto i te ahua o te tinana, a he ahuareka ki a ia mo te hiahia o te kaitono ahuareka ki te urupare ki ta raatau uiui mo RUH me "ae." I tetahi atu, ko te tangata e kore e rapu ana i te whanaungatanga tinana me te tangata e tono ana ki te RUH (mehemea ka taea) ka whakautu ki "no."
Mena kaore he ahuareka o te tangata kei runga i te mutunga o tenei waahanga, kaore pea e pai ana ki te whakaatu i o ratau whakaaro i runga i te paari me te pono, me te kore e wareware ki te karere i te kore e hoatu he whakautu. Kaore he tangata e whakautu ana i to ratou tukuna i tenei waahanga (tetahi atu waahanga whakaongaonga morohe ranei, mo taua mea) - ina koa he tangata ke.
Ki te Me Me Me Me Whakamahia RUH
Kaore i te whakamahia te RHHH mo tetahi atu mea engari mo te tono atu ki tetahi atu mo o raatau taangata mo te taangata, mehemea kaore koe e hiahia ana ki te mohio me pehea te ahua o to ratau, me wareware koe ki te whakamahi i tenei waahanga. A, ahakoa ko koe, kaore e tino hoatu ki a koe te pai ki te whakamahi.
E tika ana kia atawhaihia e te katoa, kaore e taea e koe te korero i te wa tika mehemea he pai te ahua o tetahi tangata ki tenei ahua o te patai-ahakoa he tino whakaohooho ranei, he kore ranei. Me whakamahi tonu tenei waahi ki te aro nui, engari, ka taea e nga aratohu e whai ake nei he whakaaro ki a koe kaore pea e tika ana kia whakamahia.
Kia pai te whakamahi RUH:
- Ko te kuputuhi / korerorero ki tetahi hoa e uru ana koe ki aianei me te tangata e mohio ana koe he waimarie ki te taangata.
- Te tuhi / korerorero ki tetahi tangata hou i runga i te pae taatai, i roto ranei i te hapori ipurangi e whakaatu ana kei te whakaatuhia i tenei wa e te tino hiahia o te tangata.
- Tuhituhi / korerorero ki tetahi tangata i tutaki koe i te tangata (engari kaore i te whai waahi ki aianei) kei te whakaatu i nga hiahia ohaoha / taangata ranei.
Kaore pea i te pai ki te whakamahi RUH:
- Te whakawhitiwhiti kōrero / korerorero ki te tangata kaore i te whakaatu i nga hiahia o te wahine.
- Te tuhi / korerorero ki tetahi i runga i te turanga ngaio (pēnei i te LinkedIn ) ranei i runga i te whatunga hapori tuwhera (penei i te waahanga korero o te whakahou i te mana o Facebook).
- Ko te kuputuhi / korerorero ki te tangata e tuku ana i nga karere whakauru-penei pea he ahuareka ki a ia, engari kaore e nui mo ratou kia ahuareka ki a ia.